My experience travelling with kids heavily favours hotels, TBH. Especially brands hotels. They're generally:
- secure,
- clean,
- *fire-safe*,
- always have my rooms ready,
- have working WiFi,
- don't have things like unsecured bottles of bleach in bathrooms,
- don't have stray dogs hanging around,
- don't have inappropriate art, books, TV-stations, etc.
Admittedly I'm less price-sensitive than some, but I also don't find hotels massively more expensive.