>there's a pretty small number of people who actually organize things

I've observed the same thing in video games with group activities. People sit in party finder waiting for somebody else to organize a group. They could make the group themselves, but they don't. They just sit there and wait until somebody else does it.

In real life I can understand this apprehension a lot more, but in games it's the difference of a few clicks and picking and choosing who gets to join. And yet a lot of people don't want to do it. It's quite curious.

I wonder if it's related to who is willing to organize things in real life as well. Maybe some people are just more driven to organize things?