This may also be the reason why Google Wave failed.
1. Performance was never more than tolerable
2. Invite only access
3. Invites didn't go out immediately, just added people to a pool of potential future invites
A product that required the network effect of a large connected userbase to succeed only had random individuals with access. Literally no one I invited and would have used it with got in, and I was in one of the first couple batches of public users to get access. A spectacular self-own on Google's part with that rollout.