You wouldn't sell me the memory of your kids first steps 5 years ago but you'll sell me his future ball games, all of his time between 9&5 and weekends if I give enough accolades
Don't buy the lie - work is fundamentally unfulfilling and everyone, everywhere eventually realizes that for themselves. If you disagree today, it doesn't matter, you will ultimately experience it... if you spend enough time alive.
All a career really is a different form of high school and absolutely as meaningless the moment its over.
Kids & family are not like that at all.