I'm all for the rename. Call it the ASF, update references in documents the next time we touch them.
It's very much the same discussion as master/main for branches, or Andrew/Andy for me: if I care enough to ask people to respect my name, people who wish to care for those around them will take care to respect my choice of name.
Changing the foundation's name is very obviously not going to undo any of the injustices that have been done over the years, but if we care about the people involved so little that we won't even stop using their name for something unrelated to them when they ask nicely then how can they (or anyone else) possibly think we'd do the right thing in a more weighty situation?