That would be news to a lot of Catholics, myself included.
Roman Catholicism is not a perfect denomination -- or religion for that matter -- but what is? It is however a lot more nuanced and encompassing than the the facile understanding often promoted online.
There’s not really a point unless you really want communion for some reason.
Also, I think it’s pretty obvious I wasn’t talking about people drug to to church by their spouse.
90% of primary schools in Ireland are Catholic [1] [2]. That doesn't sound like a country where the Catholic Church has lost widespread influence.
[1] https://www.irishtimes.com/news/education/are-we-failing-non...
[2] https://www.state.gov/reports/2020-report-on-international-r...
That has almost entirely stopped. There are now strict child protection laws. Parents can generally opt their kids out of religious instruction. Church attendance in Ireland has collapsed. The patronage of schools by the churches is mostly now a vestige of the past and will eventually be phased out, then the religious orders now accept that.
The school system is very different to other countries. Schools can have a religious "ethos" but it means very little nowadays and many children opt out of the single religious education lesson a week. The curriculum is set by the state, funding is from the state, management boards are no longer dominated by religious orders and all teachers are in one of two secular unions.
For the most part, schools are really only Catholic in name only. If the church pushed anti-LGBT propaganda in schools like other countries it would cause uproar. That power has simply gone. The school system is archaic and over due for massive reform. One of the main things blocking it is historical land and building ownership.