I've often thought if complex extraterrestrial beings were discovered they may not "look" much different than anything found on earth, since the spectrum is so vast on this planet (bacteria, plants, mammals, cephalopods, etc.) - considering the universal confines of physics and locomotion. Isn't there something special about crab/spider anatomy as well and it being very "evolutionarily stable" or something? Cannot recall any papers or information on specifics here at the moment.
Meanwhile, I always laugh watching old Twilight Zone episodes and how they have regular humans playing aliens - they don't even bother to differentiate them as a species (likely because of available technology) but think this can work well in a way.
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