That is precisely what happened: I don't write Python (grandma doesn't write JS). Python changed (JS changed). Environment stopped supporting the old one (browser for grandma, package manager for me). End-user apps didn't keep up (website for grandma, the apps for me). I am now forced to go resolve these issues. This is 100% analogous. Please explain how it is not. In both scenarios you would blame the "app developer" (in the Python case you would blame app/library developers for bad dev practices or whatever, in the hypothetical you would blame the website developer for not updating the crossword page), and the end-use for being entitled (in my case, the user of various apps that are broken, and the grandma using the crossword website). You supposed solution is that we should either not complain, or I guess, ironically, just learn the base systems better to be more on top of things so we can compensate for the bad dev practices ourselves.

Also, I am not "trying hard" not to care about Python. I specifically said in my very first comment I go out of my way to avoid it now. I think that falls in the "cares" category. My default state is to not be aware of what language things are written in. I don't know if some given tool is written in C, bash, or JS. If I were to coincidentally learn what language it was written in, it might serve as a curiosity, but not really phase me either way. However, I was forced to become aware of a bunch of Python stuff since it started breaking, and then forced to learn about all the weird workarounds to get it working. Given that I was forced to repeatedly deal with dependency hell with apps in this language, I am now choosing to avoid it if I can in the future if I learn that an app is written in it.