It doesn’t mean that. However feminism allows for that as a choice. I think the OP doesn’t classify as feminist because they want to deny that choice in general.
I am just talking about what behaviours/views/values I find a turn-on/turn-off and what I personally seek in a partner.
I do however believe that some lifestyles are healthier than others, although maybe there is no one universal best lifestyle and it depends both on circumstances and life goals to some extent.
Of course feminist women that are not sex positive are exist too. Some of the people need to get out more and meet feminists in real life!