Yeah, there's a huge problem in the community where every problem is the user's fault.
Like, using the most popular graphics card provider on Linux shouldn't be some outlandish idea that should be ridiculed.
I think it will change in a few years. There's been a lot of cool stuff added to Linux over the past few years. You can even use peripherals like hardware fan controllers or RGB hubs. With Nvidia open sourcing their drivers I'm hoping that wayland issues get ironed out sooner rather than later
In reality it's more like a sentiment of a certain hardware manufacturer towards the Linux community. The best the community can do is make it known.