So I never dug into this before but I found this interesting chart from the US government [1]
It does seem like a relatively smaller percentage of young people own homes today vs 40 years ago - but not as shocking as you'd imply:
Percentage of people <35 who own a home: 1982: 41% 2021: 38.5%
Percentage of 35-40 who own a home: 1982: 70% 2021: 62%
So while the trend is down - it still seems like over a third of people under 35 own a home, and over 60% of those 35-40 do.
That sounds very far from impossible.
[1] https://www.census.gov/housing/hvs/data/charts/fig07.pdf
Meaning - if guy and girl are married and own a house together, that counts as 2 people towards home owner bucket.
If they are not married, they'd need to each own a house for the same rate to hold.
You can refer to https://www.bls.gov/ooh/computer-and-information-technology/..., or https://www.bls.gov/ooh/computer-and-information-technology/... - those people are all in tech, and most aren't new grads. Median salaries for "computer programmers" and "software developers" are 91K and 107K respectively.
The vast majority of IT work in the US pays around half that.
Even taking that figure at face value...
> or have much fat to trim in your expenditure.
Yeah, fat like exorbitant rents that landlords keep jacking up year after year solely because they have the power to do so. Fat like corporations charging more for less because they can get away with it. Fat like our federal government and the banking system it artificially props up debasing our currency and whittling away at the buying power of those dollars.
The fat to trim ain't in individual working Americans' budgets. The fat to trim is systemic - and by God are we overdue for some trimming, no matter how badly it might hurt the feelings of the ownership class.