If you look at this datasheet for example, pins 10 and 11 in the schematic can be used to detect insertion of the jack: https://www.switchcraft.com/assets/1/6/35RASMT8CHNTRX_CD.pdf
Side note; Not sure I've heard 3.5mm connectors called 1/8" connectors before, though I have heard of the larger 1/4" connectors.
Some googling:
3.5mm jack - 49million results
1/8" jack - 63 million results
3.5mm stereo jack - 19 million results
1/8 stereo jack 5.9 million
1/8" stereo jack - 5.47 million
Evidently, it's a common term! Guess once I decided what I was calling them, that's what I searched for, and what I skimmed technical details for.
Metric dimensions of rifle-cartridges, however, seem to reliably be the land-diameter: 5.56x45, 7.62x51, and 7.62x39 all have eponymous land-diameters.
* Regarding "Jack" In February 1884, C. E. Scribner was issued US Patent 293,198 for a "jack-knife" connector that is the origin of calling the receptacle a "jack". . . . The current form of the switchboard-plug was patented prior to 1902 . . . It is today still used on mainstream musical equipment, especially on electric guitars. [0]
* 3.5mm connector There are at least four different varieties of 3.5 mm plugs and jacks, each with its own purpose and application. . . . TS, TRS, TRRS . . . The letter T stands for Tip, and the R stands for Ring (like a ring on your finger, not like ringing the telephone). . . . a TS plug has two conductors, a TRS has three, a TRRS has four, and a TRRRS has five. . . A TRRS or Tip Ring Ring Sleeve plug has four conductors and is very popular with 3.5mm, and can be used with stereo unbalanced audio with video… or with stereo unbalanced audio plus a mono microphone conductor. . . . Unfortunately, there are two conflicting standards associated with its use with stereo unbalanced audio plus a mono microphone conductor. [1]
0. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phone_connector_(audio)
1. https://www.provideocoalition.com/ts-trs-trrs-trrrs-combatin...
I still have an old phone (not a smartphone) that uses a 3.5 mm TRRS jack for that purpose and I would not trade it for any Bluetooth gizmo, it works perfectly, you just need to be a bit careful with the cable. But no stress about the earpods running out of juice.
The first time I saw a 3.5 mm was in my 1975 six transistor Japanese little 9V AM radio. It came with one of those weird pinkish earpieces.
I'll keep an eye out for more if you want.