He does an excellent job explaining things and put it to me like this.
Elements to the Left of Iron can undergo fusion and release energy, Elements to the right can undergo fission and release energy.
Iron IS the line because it needs energy to do either of these.
All elements want to find stability, and Iron is that Element because it needs energy for either fission or fusion.
So yes, Iron is the dividing line and this is what makes it so stable.
Edit: forgot to link the chart when referencing left or right..
(Yes I know it's technically mesons at the scale we're talking about but it doesn't rhyme so there)
-- Yeah there are a few alternative designs, but nothing that seems to do the division. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alternative_periodic_tables
And really, i guess everything is physics if you get specific enough.
Iron will not happily fuse further because this NEEDS energy and where would that energy come from?
"heavier than iron" elements are produced when a star explodes because that collapse produces enormous amounts of energy.
During the collapse, the outer edge of the star is accelerated to something like 20% of the speed of light, that is an ENORMOUS amount of energy slamming down on the core.
Lastly, neutron starts don't produce energy, they are the incompressible remnants of a dead star.