Gosh, i explained REST to my wife by explaining that it's just HTTP and then sending her a link to Roy Fielding's doctoral dissertation. So frustrating to assume that women can't be perfectly competent hackers in their own right.
"In parallel with the software engineering research in architectural styles, the object-oriented programming community has been exploring the use of design patterns and pattern languages to describe recurring abstractions in object-based software development. A design pattern is defined as an important and recurring system construct. A pattern language is a system of patterns organized in a structure that guides the patterns' application [70]. Both concepts are based on the writings of Alexander et al. [3, 4] with regard to building architecture."
That's so much simpler than "We need to be able to talk to all machines about all the stuff that’s on all the other machines. So we need some way of having one machine tell another machine about a resource that might be on yet another machine."
Your wife may have understood it, but Ryan's wife lacked the CS background.
I mean, my wife is smarter than me and has a doctorate and a lot of letters after her name, but she's never cared to learn too much about how the drivetrain in a car works. If she asked a simple question like "How does a car's transmission work?", I highly doubt she'd be happy if I just linked her some pdf's covering the physics and mechanical engineering of CVT's and said, "you're welcome!"
If it was his dad instead, would there be any issue? https://gist.github.com/1525252
If you want the hard numbers check the number of ungraduates/graduates in CS/IT, for males and females.
I'm saying that women are not capable of grasping IT (hell, the very first programmer was a woman, mrs. Lovelace). I'm saying that in actual, real life, they statistically don't want/care/attempt to.
Maybe they are just smarter and go where the big money are these days (biology), as well as the better hours.
You're right in one aspect: of the very, very few people in the world who know about computer science, most (more than half, anyway) of them are men.