1. Try out Zig and go back into hobby graphics programming/gamedev.
2. Decrease dopamine chasing, increase focus. I hope to achieve it via treating my work as my fun - i.e. if I'm bored, I should just get back to the IDE or do some research, instead of mindlessly jumping on HN or other news sites. If I'm too tired to focus, I should either go outside or just lay down and rest - instead of my usual routine of using Internet content as a source of pleasure.
3. Lose weight that has crept on me in the past couple years of working full-time.
- learn to drive then drive to the sea somewhere with my dog
- renovate flat
- start citizenship process
- become fluent in Czech, instead of my current level of "awkward and nervous"
- be as nice online as I am in real life
- rejoin badminton league and start playing football again
* Further move my focus away from income generation, and closer to building a public good.
* Cook more, better Indian food
- read more. Read a couple of books this year, but I just want more, and more deep reflections on them.
- knowledge base: have more trackability around the stuff I like. So I'm getting into knowledge base management so that I can have pre written ideas and have a more easy path towards some future projects. Having that become a habbit is a goal for me.
- learn react + d3. Being a data scientist, I've always loved the cool data viz projects I've seen around the web, so I'd like to get my feet wet in the world.
- masters degree: I have had as a goal to join a masters program in statistics because it is a discipline I really enjoy studying and feel I can actually enjoy my routine during the 2 years I would be locked into. Now that I have the financial stability to maybe quit work for a while (or have another less demanding type of work), I feel the could be feasable.
- To get better at basketball. I have always loved that sport and it helped me get fit. But I've never been particulary good at it, so I'd like to improve to have more fun at pickup games.
2 play more, more humor, more laughs
3 expand social circle, make new friends
I put the sign up wall - reluctantly - recently because people are not inclined to suggest their favorite quiet spots. And I need to grow the quiet map to make it liveable for me. Currently its all on my dime & time.
It needs to stay a free platform for users. It's not the affluent that live next to railways, share rooms, can escape to the countryside.
So I put the sign up wall so I at least have the possibility to send an email every once in awhile, to reach out to the interested users. To encourage them to add a quiet spot. I have not send such email since I created it 7 months ago.
I'm not happy with this "solution" but have not found a better way. Would welcome any advice or input.
ps: If you like, I'll send you an entry code.
2. Tell people about them.
3. Stay away from any glowing screen unless I'm doing 1 or 2.
- Learn more about software architecture
- Publish on my website the solution to a fantastic 20th-century literary puzzle (https://glthr.com/cj)
Electricity cut offs, freezing cold, water shortage, rocket terror and general unpredictability make it harder for me to commit to some sort of a long term plan, much less muster enough energy to do Leetcode style interviewing.
Although, I've started running for an hour per day, which helps with bad mood and suicidal thoughts.
My goals for 2023 and beyond are: survive, connect with people like me, transition, hopefully find a new tech job, get into health/longevity. I believe that logevity is the next big thing.
- lose weight, get fit
- build a successful side business
- maybe find a new (main) job
- spend more time with my cats
- better work-life balance
- treat myself better
- spend more time with my family (father was diagnosed with dementia last week)
- watch more sunsets
edit: lots of good things in this thread, some more ideas/goals for me
- make a barista course/certification (love making coffee)
- contribute to some piece of FOSS
- support university students in my field through a lecture or otherwise
- See if I can squeeze a publication or two out of the stuff we're doing at work.
- Make some more meaningful open source contributions
What kind of project are you planning on contributing to? I keep telling myself that I should contribute to some Linux desktop project, but the problem I have is that everything seems to just work and I don't run into many issues to fix... :)
> but the problem I have is that everything seems to just work and I don't run into many issues to fix.
May I point you at linux audio? ;-) Getting any type of DAW working in linux without having to do some crazy rewiring with jack would be a godsend.
2. Get a job, start a small side business, grow my online presence.
3. Get the hell out of Latin America, this continent is far too violent.
I’m sorry for you that you and your friends(/family) have to deal with an unsafe environment. I’m curious what you mean by violence. I got into a database of potential consultants for a Latin American software company, and I’m open to input regarding the viability of this work life balance as a single male.
Now, by violence I mean mostly all things stemming from drug-trafficking (hitmen, kidnappings, racketeering, extortion, carjacking) most commonly found in central america but expanding to southern countries more and more. The safest cities were historically Montevideo in Uruguay and Santiago in Chile, I may be biased but I think Montevideo is still safe and I'm not sure about Santiago, unless you choose to live in the eastern side of the city [0]. EDIT: you may want to factor political instability in your decision. I encourage you to ask other expats about their experience and what they see in the future, they're well-off so they they're lucky to avoid unpleasant experiences the local population has to deal with (plus they can always return to the US). I personally would only live in Chile and Uruguay, so take what I say with a grain of salt.
[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Northeastern_zone_of_Santiago
Not sure what I'll do on January 2nd yet.
* Finish the setup of my blog and start publishing posts from my (too long) draft backlog.
* Back in October, I started doing 3-month experiments with my day-to-day life to try different structures and seek personal fulfillment. Thanks to being a freelancer/contractor/consultant, I worked for 6 months at 120% plus the overhead of running my company and at 10% the next 3 months. Neither have much room to construct a meaningful work-life balance: work too much and there is no life, work too little and there is no point. Now that I work between 40 and 80% and it's the most fulfilling life I've had so far. But the lines between work and life are still too fuzzy and I know I can improve both by finding the right structure, hence the experiments.
* Publish some open source utils that I've created to scratch an itch and found no good alternative to – think Home Assistant / IFTTT but for commands on your own computer.
* I work on using technology to bring innovative solutions to SMEs (it won't awe the average HNer though...) and I used to organize hackathons. So I'm thinking about offering summer internships to build a Proof-of-Concept showing the value technology can bring.
I'd like to get more personal project done. I started many this year, but never finished most. (Friends have told me to seek ADHD diagnosis and treatment.)
I find myself wanting to do something entrepreneurial, but I very consistently talk myself out of any ideas I have for for moral/ethical reasons. I'd like to find something that doesn't involve some race to the bottom and also promotes some kind of, idk how to put this, rejuvenation of the commons. I used to daydream about starting a WISP and bootstrapping it into a FTTH provider, but I find I was mostly interested in the fiddling with and improving administrative/management software suites for WISPs and traditional ISPs. (I worked my way into tech from being a wisp/fttx technician for a summer job.)
2. Cultivate a mutual and meaningful friendship with someone. A non-existent social circle and approaching my fourth decade doesn't make this any easier.
* Start updating all my published ebooks (will probably take more than a year)
* Create apps for interactive exercises
* Contribute to FOSS a lot more than I've been doing so far
* Start trekking regularly again, perhaps get into cycling too
- I’d like to start a micro-startup. I do a lot of open source, but would like to do paid work for a change! I have a few ideas, but need to learn how to make them billable.
- I very slowly started moving from Gmail to an email address with a custom domain name. I need to double down on that and get away from Gmail asap. I can’t stand Google anymore and Gmail is my biggest remaining tie to them.
- Spend more time with my family.
- Find a way to better engage with my town and community. I grew up where I live now, but still feel a little disconnected.
- Continue reading. Started reading again, this year. Want to keep up with that.
- Join the 1000lbs club. This is the follow up to this year’s goal of a 135 overhead / 225 Bench / 315 Squat / 405 DL
- finally finish my PhD. Still waiting for my Advisor to finish his report…
- relax more, stress less about income
it's going to be a huge change for us too -- going from a tropical country to an european city, not only not knowing the city itself (we've never been to AMS, only to London), but also, we don't speak any dutch (although my coworkers said i don't really need dutch, my wife and i are trying to learn it).
Your coworkers left out an important detail though: on the workfloor, in the shops, anywhere, speaking English is fine. When socializing, there you will face obstacles.
After work hours are for relaxing. So, having to speak in English makes it less optimal, even if the Dutch are really willing to accommodate you there. Quite naturally, people will drop to Dutch again during conversations. If one have to make jokes, common references and all the stuff for which you need a finer touch which your mother tongue provides for, falling back to a foreign langue is a degradation. 1) vocabulary, 2) emulation vs native speed.
If you are with six dutchies and you are the only one that forces everyone to have a "degraded experience" of a fun night, you do well to try to learn Dutch. Tell them to fuck off if they switch to English when you want them to speak Dutch, so you can learn.
You can be direct and honest with the dutch, that is appreciated. When people start to insult you, congratulations! They are joking and signaling they accept you as one of them. You should respond with another insult.
When we do something social, we plan. Don't just drop by and assume you will be invited over for dinner. Dutch people are anti-social or well organized, pick your perspective. This is definitely a difference with more tropical social climates.
If you move in January, brace for cold, dim days. When spring comes, everything will look nicer.
Good luck!
2. Move abroad if the said job requires some onsite time, but I'd rather not.
3. Start my own business, my country is kinda late on software stuff and can't afford western product. It's a gap I can fill I think.
4. Grow my online presence
2. Actually start updating my blog with my research.
3. Shift the weight that's piled on the last few years
4. Start the new job search, just hit 5 years at my current role and I'm getting seriously itchy feat.
It's not going to be easy, my corporate job will demand a lot of me, most of me. But my resolution is to fight to create brief moments of freedom.
-stay healthy as dreamed.Sleep early and quit smoking.
-stick to onething cuz the more you're trying to figure out,the more likely you ended up knowing nothing throughly.
-smile more and don't overthink
2. Get better with everyday Norwegian (that new job should take care of that)
3. Get to A1 level in French (Bonjour, monsieur !)
4. Get through my list of books
5. Start a toy side project only to present something and make small programs for myself along the way
Fix teeth, get glasses.
Finish my current project.
Survive.
2. Maybe finally, at 35, start studying for a BSc.
3. Get my programming language / desktop environment / editor project into a useful state.
2. Make a sale from side hustle
3. Make another sale from side hustle
Spend less time on social media (first year this is a thing for me, but I joined NAFO early on and it was addictive in addition to very meaningful for me).
2. Fix habits
list(itertools.product(['eat', 'exercise', 'sleep'],['well', 'on-time']))
3. Interview for golang jobs
- otherwise, find work that permits me to care about performance and doesn't pay pennies
2. Start settling down and find a life partner
3. Work on my side project and figure out if there is a chance
4. Figure out the next part of my life
- Slowly transition in to a business I have been building through 2022
- Get around £1m in revenue (not unrealistic)
- Compete in the CrossFit open and place well
- Start DevOps consultancy
- find better/more interesting work
- Build more model kits than I buy, reduce my model backlog
- Travel to Asia
2. lose 33lbs/15kg of bodyweight
3. get treatment for ADHD
- Make significant progress on learning Korean
- Lose ~40 lbs
- Get a better job
- Launch a freestyle fpv channel
- Do a lot of fishing
Rethink current job and maybe try to find compiler job
- study a lot more
- complete CS50x
- get my life in order
- Get a grad Cert in cyber security
- drop some Kgs
2. Do the goal.