> but when someone reads "abstraction is expensive", they immediately assume the implication "and hence you shouldn't use it".
I suppose? But if someone's attitude is that expensive things should be universally avoided, that seems like a problem that's going to need to be addressed sooner or later.
Would we be having this conversation under an article titled "abstractions have benefits"? Would we be worried that someone is going to look at that title and think, "I should use them everywhere all the time then"?
I don't know. I'm not against phrasing something in a way that minimizes confusion, but on some level I think that internalizing that programming concepts aren't binary good/bad is arguably one of the most important lessons that a programmer can learn. And I regularly see a kind of pushback to the (correct) notion that abstractions have costs that I don't see in other contexts. But that could just be, and my experiences might be different than other people's.
This is largely a subjective take by me, so I understand if people disagree with it, but the prevailing attitude I personally see in software development is one where people do not realize that there is a cost to abstractions, and in fact sometimes bristle at the idea that they do have costs. At most, I can get people to agree that 'bad' abstractions have costs, but it is much harder to get them to say, "it's possible to abstract too much, and even good and necessary abstractions are still additional code with additional costs."
So I think the notion that it is not always correct to abstract every piece of code is weirdly controversial -- and the underlying idea behind that that I think people haven't internalized is "sometimes good things have a cost, and we should talk about the costs that they have."
But again, could just be me. If a bunch of people are confused over the title, then... I mean, I can't tell people what they should and shouldn't be confused about. If it's better to communicate with them in a different way, then it is what it is. It just worries me if on a programming site so many people interpret "is expensive" as "should never be used." That's not a good programming philosophy for people to have.