If you can convince your crew to try something new, there are some great FPS games nowadays. I've enjoyed those, though I haven't been able to put in anywhere near your number of hours.
- Squad
- Escape from Tarkov
- Rising Storm 2: Vietnam
- Squad
- Escape from Tarkov
- Rising Storm 2: Vietnam
Tarkov looks great, but you need to plan. You can't hop on after a long day of work and realize you're too tired to play a good match.
EFT requires a huge amount of free time, it feels like a day job. I would consider that before putting time on that game. Its nothing like COD.
I highly recommend single player mods/server emulators for EFT like Altered Escape, its a nice break from going up against meta geared super competitive players.