You might prefer Pop! OS, which is based on Ubuntu, but uses flatpak instead of snaps.
What made you switch from macOS?
Also, the system update approach of macOS seems quite hostile to slow and/or metered connections.
- Apt installs traditional deb packages
- The software center GUI has a dropdown to pick between Flatpack & Deb, defaulting to Flatpack.
I think this is a decent setup. Apt not doing what I'm used to infuriates me, but it feels vibely fitting for a gui to default to Flatpacks.