Ask HN: How to leave academia? And where to go?
The main reason is that I spend most of my time dealing with relationships with other people. My working place is very horizontal, which means everyone wants everything all the time; every snowflake wants to shine, and every flower wants to have the best smell. That'd be ok if I could simply ignore them, but since we have virtually no hierarchy, that means that (a) we need to have meetings all the time, where nothing gets solved (because there is no one to make final decisions), and (b) we're supposed to solve everything peer-to-peer, which means people will keep knocking on your door all the time: there is always a new idea, a new project, a new complaint, a new possibility, someone needs to cover for someone else, etc. I like to be engaged in my work, I mean, I want to be active in whatever I do, so there is a tendency for things to fall on my lap and never leave it. I need to keep fighting and pushing back constantly in order to do a minimum amount of significant and relevant work. It's exhausting.
I would like to leave academia and work in a company, where people are still people but they have some common, objective, external constraints and goals (like making money and/or making the company grow). In academia, there is no goal other than building your own personal individual career. Since we have no real boss and virtually no external assessment whatsoever, everything invariably ends up moving towards whoever has the larger ego, i.e. the ones who are louder and sound more certain of themselves and whatever they are doing. These are usually the ones who can get other people to do some part of their job, so they can go and be even louder and get even more people to do their job, and so on.
I don't mean by this that I don't want to work with other people; exactly the opposite. I love to work with people, as long as, by the end of the day, someone says "ok, we got a few different opinions, but we're moving this way. Let's do this." It may work or not, but at least there is something else to pursue other than pure egotism supported by non-existent or informal notions of grandeur.
So, how can anyone make such a transition? Any experiences out there? Any success/failure stories? I am very good at programming basically anything, I'm just a bit rusty. If I can sit in front of an IDE and code for 4 hours straight you'll see a man with a smile (I might even consider a low entry salary). Right now my twisted idea of paradise is having a boss who says "code this", instead of only coding my own personal projects (and failing miserably to reach my ridiculously over-inflated expectations for them).