I've had domestic wires held up for days just to go through yet another KYC when wiring between two already KYC'd accounts. If the authorities decide to civil asset forfeiture it in the process, the recourse is to pour 10s of thousands in lawyers and just maybe get the money back after the legal process eats half of it and my life gets looked over by a fine tooth comb because some middle-aged fat belly government man who's entire self worth is how much he can seize without the decency of a criminal trial had his feelings hurt that the citizen had a minor win.
So I don't think wire is necessarily a perfect substitute. There are different ways to get fucked and you have to decide which risk looks most palatable for each individual transaction. It's sort of a pick between a traditional finance system set up to fuck the little guy or the crypto landscape which is a fraud fest wild-west of living at your own peril.