Even for a power user like me, I’d rather have an ultra reliable device with amazing manufacturer warranty than something I can hack on.
You can have all three, though. Apple simply stops you from harnessing the true potential of your device because it threatens their bottom line. This is immediately apparent when you realize that any form of sideloading requires a $99/year subscription fee. Absolutely bonkers that they get away with this and people defend them anyways.
It's distribution that costs money, which makes sense because humans review that you're following their privacy polices etc.
However let's be honest, that wouldn't satisfy Facebook, Spotify, Epic et al because most people wouldn't do this so it wouldn't really help them. Facebook, Spotify & Epic don't care about user freedom, they just want to get the 30% cut back and to track you more than they're currently allowed.
There is no reason for walled garden. people can control the system themselves if setup.