How is it a PITA to move off lastpass? I switched to Bitwarden and it was a piece of cake. Exported all passwords. Imported all passwords. Pretty much all password managers can import/export as a CSV or similar.
Convincing my wife and colleagues to all switch simultaneously isn't feasible unless this data fiasco gets worse.
Since I don't feel 100% comfortable having my self hosted things on a public IP, I put it only on my LAN. For remote access (e.g. phone) I use wireguard.