I haven’t seen it mentioned in this thread but for those who like Tailwind in theory but hate all it’s drawbacks you might be interested in Open Props (https://open-props.style/) which is put together by a member of Chrome’s devrel team.

The first 10 minutes or so of this video is also a decent introduction it seems which will help put this project into context for you so you can see specifically what kinds of problems it solves in a way that Tailwind doesn’t and vice versa. https://youtu.be/O53MwmolKP4