Completely agree - the individual loss of funds from wallet hacks, forgotten seed phrases, clipboard intercepting malware, spear fishing, DeFi etc is likely greater than what has been lost through centralized exchanges, etc. It’s really troubling to see that others in the “21 million club” almost encourage such losses as they “make theirs worth more”.
It’s like comparing deaths from car crashes to airplane crashes. Unless you’re personally impacted deadly car crashes are invisible (often not even reported in local media) compared to the big and dramatic deaths from plane crashes (often ~300 people at a time) that are covered in the news with the same level of intensity as centralized exchange losses.
50k people die from car crashes every year in the US but you essentially never hear about it as they’re largely considered a somewhat-reasonable and acceptable loss considering the population, number of cars, miles driven, etc in the US. Unfortunately with the “hope you learned your lesson” attitude in crypto.
At least with improved safety standards, etc the number of deaths from cars has been declining. With every mass exodus like this and the state of UI/UX in crypto the losses from self-custody are going to explode in the coming weeks, months, and years. To make matters worse I don’t think the average user rushing to transfer funds away from an exchange fully understand that they’re completely on their own at this point. Unlike every experience they’ve ever had with traditional finance there’s no such thing as a password reset and there’s no toll-free number to call for help when you inevitably lose funds via a hack, forgotten seed, etc.