I battled those tools when I started. I watched them get better.
I've seen what new hires struggled with 5 years ago and what they struggle with 1 year ago.
Night and day.
The tools have gotten a lot better.
Here's the other ugly truth: That "40% of struggling with internal tools" may be saving the engineer 300% of time of having to implement the same from scratch themselves. Software engineering isn't all algorithms and data structures. A lot of it is just boilerplate code hooking up A to B. And better leave that boilerplate code to the internal tool that you have to figure out how to configure than implement it yourself.