"I read the whole thing waiting for the aha-erlebnis which never came."
This is increasingly my go-to metaphor for this: This article and many of its kind are talking about bricks. They really like bricks, because they're square, and they come in several nice colors, you can really bash a clam with them, they're cheap, they're quite uniform, they make great doorstops and hold down stacks of paper really well, and they have a personal preference for the texture of bricks over other possible building materials. These people think bricks are great, and you should incorporate them into all your projects, be it steel bridges, mud huts, a shed out back, a house, everything. Bricks should be everywhere.
Then they build you a tutorial where they show how it looks to build a mud hut, and how nice it is to put some random bricks in to it. Isn't that nice. Now your mud hut has bricks in it! It's better now.
But that's not what bricks are about. Bricks are not about textures or being good at bashing open clams. Bricks are about building walls. Walls that may not be the solution to every wall, but certainly have their place in the field of wall building because of their flexibility, easy of construction, strength, cheapness, etc. Trying to understand bricks out of the context of using them with mortar to build walls is missing the point.
Contra the endless stream of tutorials that make it look like functional programming is essentially mapping over arrays and using Result/Option instead of error returns, that is not what functional programming is about. That is a particular brick functional programming is built out of. It isn't the only brick, and if you scan a real Haskell program, isn't even necessarily one of the major ones in practice. They turn out to be a specific example of a very simple "recursion scheme". These simple "bricks" show up a lot precisely because they are so simple, but generally the architecture layer of the program is built out of something more interesting, because "map" turns out to be a very small and incapable primitive to build a real program out of.
In my considered opinion and experience, if you spend time with "functional programming" and come away thinking "oh, it's about 'map' and 'Result'", the point of functional programming was completely missed.
And stop telling people that's what it's about! You're putting a bad taste in everyone's mouth, because when all the imperative programmers look at your so-called "functional" code in imperative languages and say, "That's a nightmare. There's all this extra stuff and noise and it's not doing anything very useful for all that extra stuff."... they're completely right. Completely. It is a net negative to force this style in to places where it doesn't belong, quite a large one in my opinion. And especially stop being sanctimonious about they "don't get it" when people object to this style. It is the one advocating this style where it does not belong that does not "get it".
The worst thing that can happen in one's education is to think you've been exposed to some concept when you in fact haven't, and come away with a wrong impression without realizing there's a right one to be had. I still encourage curious programmers to clock some serious time with real functional programming to learn what it is about. This style of programming isn't it, and your negative impressions of this style don't necessarily apply to real functional programming. (It does some, perhaps, but probably not the way you think.)