I'd honestly rather someone forget my name than appear to remember it because they looked it up in some "relationship manager".
Look, you might think this is creepy, and I get that. But for some, this kind of software is a valuable crutch. And you wouldn’t kick a crutch out from under someone who cannot walk unassisted.
What about the name of a dude you got introduced to at a party and they mentioned they played the guitar and you were thinking about starting a garage band the next year?