Every time I try to understand what category theory is, I hit an impassable wall, I don't understand it. Alexander Grothendieck is much too intelligent for me. But I don't despair of getting there one day...
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLbgaMIhjbmEnaH_LTkxLI...
He also has a series of blog posts on it, but I found the lectures especially helpful.
As a non-math expert and programmer I highly highly recommend Bartosz stuff I linked it in another branch under my original comment.
It's mostly the beginning chapters don't even get into the meat of CT quick enough. Instead it spends a lot of time justifying things. I feel It's written for people who hated math even more then I did.
https://bartoszmilewski.com/2014/10/28/category-theory-for-p...
and his associated youtube videos (which are EVEN better):
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLbgaMIhjbmEnaH_LTkxLI7FMa...