I would suggest using system.data.sqlite instead, it's the official version from sqlite and is actively maintained. Additionally, it's self contained whereas the Microsoft version requires separate dlls. Personally I've used dapper as a wrapper over sqlite and had decent performance but you do have to be aware of transactions and increase the cache size (and maybe set wal mode). There's also things like sqlite-net which looks promising but I haven't tried it so I can't comment on perf.

Perf with litedb is pretty awful in my experience if you're using it as a schemaful db. But it's probably the wrong tool for the job if you're comparing to sqlite. I've yet to come across any embedded db that can do schema + document with decent performance.