Forego those "bullshit industrial complex" studies, and there'll be some environmental, safety or cost fuck-up. Outside observers will then get to comment derisively on lack of foresight or planning, so it's really a win-win for us.
>It seems like there must be a way to go back to building stuff as fast as we could 100 years ago in the US.
There is. Forego a lot of the building/safety code, cut corners, and optimize speed over all else.
>In China they can still build that way today[0][1] in a way I find embarrassing and annoying.
Imagine how embarrassing and annoying it must be for Chinese people to see the relatively sub-par quality of the end result.
>How different would the world be if in 3 months SF build 19 giant skyscrapers full of apartments you would want to live in?
I can almost guarantee it would not happen. They can build it, but it's not likely to be an apartment I would want to live in, at least long term.
Don't get me wrong, there's certainly a middle-ground somewhere between the extremes you're talking about. However, when it comes to, say, transit, I'd much rather aim for a first-world country that builds "less slowly" and cheaper without compromising safety or quality, like Spain or the Netherlands, over a place like China, which may set the record for speed but won't be setting any records for quality or longevity of its infrastructure. (And I'd even say that's okay for China, they need it deployed quickly because they, until recently, were growing fast from a very low baseline.)