Policing public conversations and fostering or enforcing selected narratives and views of the world, when the entities carrying out the censorship claim to be impartial and accurate but (inevitably) are neither, leads to precisely the same sort of real-world harms employed as the pretext for imposing Chinese-style communications controls and censorship.
What has been going on recently on social media is a very different, very aggressive, hyper-invasive active version of this process.
We've been subjecting one another to the digital equivalent of having someone pluck a book out of your hands while you're reading it and pop it into an incinerator. Or doing the same to some of the magazines on the magazine rack you were walking towards. Or tapping you and another person on the shoulder on the sidewalk and telling you not to talk about what you were talking about anymore and placing a ball gag into the other person's mouth because he'd been warned to stay off that topic already and the thought policeperson knew or suspected that "garbage can lid" was a code word for "flat Earth".
Everyone has their own personal level of meddling and interference in their daily lives and interactions that they're willing to tolerate. Constant monitoring and modulation (even if it were truly well-intentioned) across most modern unencrypted forms of public and semi-public communications, whether it's centralized or whether it's been farmed out to certain departments in individual companies (which do coordinate with each other, outside organizations, and governments) is unacceptable and I will work around it or work to undermine it (legally) whenever possible and practical.
There are (largely) unmodulated forums like 4chan. Do you want everything to be like that?
Are reflexive claims that reverting to their original (mostly-unhindered, thought-police-free mode that acted against credible threats / clearly illegal activities) ways will inevitably result in them being equivalent to 4chan made in good faith?
Dunno where you are seeing bad faith here?
We are far better off in a world where 4chan exists, rather than being banned.