It's not too surprising that you don't see latency increase under light load like Youtube. "Under load" really means uploading (especially) or downloading (sometimes) at maximum speed. But Youtube usually doesn't download at maximum speed, because that would imply you can't keep up with its streaming video rate, and you'd get glitches. So your connection is likely not really "under load" at that time. Try uploading a large file somewhere and you should see an immediate change in blips.