>I just read the link. I don't think your characterization of the conversation is fair.
"If you dont like it, fork it. Stop bothering us about it, we will never fully remove the slur filter."
"stop bothering us about it" is , in my experience, a huge red-flag to run into while perusing issues and commits.
a 'code of conduct' that dictates all use cases for software for the forever-future is a cute concept -- but 1) it has never worked, and 2) it's basically untenable in the open-source environment.
If the software IS workable, it WILL be forked, and your power-from-on-high to force behaviour on people crumbles. If the goal really is to force your political/ethical position on people who use your software it's probably better to do so more transparently so as to not scare the herd into another avenue of control from another actor.
As with any software tool in my preferred catalog of tools I prefer one that doesn't foist it's own methods and standards onto me; furthermore I prefer my tools don't foist their politics and societal standards onto me. I don't think that's the purpose of a tool.
>I would add, lemmy doesn't seem to be about pure free speech, or free speech above all else.
that moral absolutism doesn't need to exist within software. We know that hard-coded lists of restrictions hidden deep within software are a Bad Thing for a long variety of actual technical reasons -- there is nothing stopping the developers of Lemmy from shipping a filter-list that reflects their values right along side their software; the choice towards inflexibility and zero-tolerance just makes the software less reliable, less maintainable, more opinionated, and less popular.