Strong behavioral individuality is present at the first day after birth in fish
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A child is really an incredible genetic gamble. It’s like someone grabs legos from multiple people’s genetics, spills an even portion of random pieces from each and builds a new person. If the baby has your looks it can have the other parent’s characteristics and your grandmother’s personality. 1/4 of pregnancies have issues as well - during conception, delivery, genetics. It’s all about how many times you want to roll the dice.
I audited some embryology, neuropsychology classes in college. Still seems like a miracle, how the kids arrive...
(I won't argue about the magic moment of person-hood, if any. Life in squishy bodies on Planet Earth, we do our best. I'm glad for the chance.)
1. I think the dog has a cute name
2. I think the dog is cute
3. The dog doesn't attack me
4. Other dogs also attack people
5. It's the owner's fault for lack of training.
These infuriate me more than anything because they are all invalid. You also can't point this out because it's an emotional subject for them
It really is. It is very bizarre when I see people absolute flip out because someone points out that a dog that was bred to be violent ... actually becomes violent. And of course I know it isn't just pits that will attack (I'm looking at you chihuahuas!) but they combine that instinct with power and size and now you have a real problem.
Most dogs spend almost their entire lives docile. Those bread to be violent are ones that have high odds of a moment or two of uncontrollable violence.
(And if you look, it's almost always because they have a chihuahua or pinscher ancestor.)
The maternal womb is also considered an environmental factor, so by the time they are born the offspring has already been affected, greatly, by the environment. And that's precisely one of the major hypotheses of this paper.
Of course, genetics also influences our personalities greatly, but as seen in this paper with genetically identical fish; even in this case there is shown to be individuality. Now, this paper doesn't say anything about how much of one's personality is genetics or how much is influenced by the environment. What it says is that in genetically identical individuals that grow in (pretty much) identical conditions there is already individuality that's present at the time of birth which is possibly mediated by the pre-natal environment.
I also look at my own life and imagine I was born in a different country with different hardships. I can only imagine that some of my personality traits would have expressed themselves differently based on different survival necessities.
As a tech analogy, varying your training data will vary your outputs, even if the model parameters remain consistent.
He was born early after my partner's water broke when she wasn't in labour (doctor said likely from our overactive baby puncturing the placenta) and had a lot of attitude from day 1. Kicked a lot, couldn't be swaddled, was super active and even liked the same music (we went to see a symphony before he was born and there was a particularly recognizable track, even now he likes that same track while crying or screaming when he hears other kinds of music). Even now at 3 months he's super active and hitting all the developmental milestones early (and kicks a lot lol).
I wonder if you have a potential kickball star in the making. Congratulations
There is a huge scientific difference between having an idea why something might be and actually managing to test it. Although, of course, this was tested in fish it is still probably very applicable to other species.
They are looking at median swimming speed and how fish swim. Calling this "behavior" is misleading. It could just as likely be developmental physical differences.
They watched fish swim and saw that they are more correlated with themselves than others. Everything else is a very fishy narrative. Many people in this thread judge it by empathy with the story instead of what can be reasonably done.
The more we learn about animals (see the article on HN ~2 days ago that bees engage in play) the more it seems like they're a lot more like us than we'd like to think. We're smart, and we can try to explain every thing away (like you do in your comment), but there's a pattern that's emerging. It's an uncomfortable pattern and I get why we try to convince ourselves that animals are fundamentally different than we are, but I'm more and more believing that we're all actually a lot more similar than we'd like to think.
A lot of my current thinking is from the book How to be Animal by Melanie Challenger. I recommend it!
Netflix's cat movie that was extremely narrativistic and meant for cat loving audience had more sound basis and plausible methodology to study actual behavior. (Like attachment tests).
This is simply not it. I don't care if it supports my preconceptions - I try to judge objectively. As should more people. This isn't "pushback against personhood of animals". This is pushback against an increasingly narrativistic science, and the inability of so many people to recognize it.
I’m always a bit amused by people who aren’t parents yet who are considering adoption and are very set on a baby as opposed to an older child. Most of their reasoning boils down to the idea that babies are more malleable. As a parent, I do not believe that is the case. They are born as they are, and you can only help them along the path of being true to themselves or trying to be something else. And we can try to help them make good choices. That is it. We don’t get to change who they are.
Once that calibration window closes it is difficult if not impossible for most people to ever address the issues.
However this study was performed on genetically and developmentally identical siblings, which is impossible to do in humans (at least ethically) and the interesting part is there was still individual variance, present from the time of birth, that increased over time.
At least, it needs to be tempered and modified in the common knowledge by what we have learned "recently" about epigenetics.
And realistically it needs to be modified by everything we don't know too.
Whereas in humans, we are born needing to specialise almost everything during our lifetime -- which has incredibly high costs (ie., many years of being fed without being able to hunt) -- but high rewards: we learn how to conceptualise the world in novel ways, create tools, etc. both largely a product of our ability to specialise our sensory-motor system in response to the actual environment we're in.
There is no reason to suppose that we are analogous to fish in our personalities, but not in everything else -- indeed, there's obvious reasons to suppose the opposite.
Edit: I think it's "Secrets of a Baby Nurse," by Marsha Podd. (Maybe. It's been a long time.) I hope that's it because so many of those books were uninformative or simply reassuring (e.g. "Yes, it's normal ..."). This one talks about how your baby is communicating with you from the start and how to watch for that to make both of your lives easier.
source: am parent of more than one child, each of whom had distinct personalities from birth
I love my 2 month old but her personality mainly seems to be "I enjoy drinking milk and sleeping"
I won’t definitively state newborns don’t have personalities, but my unscientific hunch is sleep-deprived parents are simply projecting and seeing what isn’t really there.
I love both my children, but for the first six weeks they are simply base creatures, outwardly.
The oldest was pretty lazy and quiet during the day, but did get bouncy when my wife tried to sleep. The combination of couch potato and getting active when stimuli stops and the boredom hits is present in the kid to this day.
Middle child was super-active the whole way through labor and came out active. Was surfing furniture standing up at eight months.
I could go on at length.
Main point is - we saw the differences before they were born.
Of course, humans are still a different species and our offspring have a much more complex ontogenesis and so I would venture and say our individuality development is even more sensitive to pre-natal environmental, post-natal and genetic factor changes.
But ultimately, we are all animals here so we are governed by very similar broad rules.
For some reason, people really love to make these kinds of predictions. They sound true and are fun to talk about, and they make sense to pretty much everyone.
At the same time, the way we talk about something conditions how we see it, how we react to it, and consequently what it is
It's an interesting paper but full of big-picture issues.
In a similar vein, I don't understand people who want to know their child's gender before birth. Even ignoring the whole transgender and non-binary aspect, it's like they want to have their kids figured out at birth. Just because this one will be born with a penis, or that one with a vagina, doesn't mean you know anything about who they are and who they will become.
So choose two...
> buying clothes
Tons of gender neutral clothing especially for newborns... Ours has a lot of green, white, beige, gray. Plus some pink and blue because who says boys can't wear pink? (And because lots of people gave us lots of baby shit)
> decorating
Heavily gendered rooms are strange to me... And who's to say the child will even like it?
> Plus imagining your new baby as part of your life.
Honestly not knowing the sex was helpful in not trying to guess how they'd be and fit into our life... We were surprised by his sex and are constantly surprised by his attitude.
No, you Americans just have ridiculous views (left and right).
I hate the idea of having my kid looking like a communist because of gender roles.
Why does the sex matter then? If you know, you know, it was you who was creating certain imagery, not the childs sex organs. So as others have said, I'd find out because of curiosity and I could leave at that.
What does a communist even look like?
https://www.encyclopedia.com/fashion/encyclopedias-almanacs-...
Often a lot of dull, drab neutral colours…
> Poecilia formosa
Or maybe it’s just so easy to find out the gender during medical screenings that you have to not look on purpose, so why not look? Then you don’t have to go out of your way to plan for two (pretty much) mutually exclusive possibilities.
Parents who want their children’s paths predestined don’t have a “knowing the child’s gender” problem, they have a “you can’t control your child’s basic personality” problem.