Point taken, but I am looking at this from the standpoint of someone who already has a considerable PC game library but is not a big techie (a pretty good stereotype of the average PC gamer). I could not in good faith recommend a Steam Deck to such a person without knowing more about the games they play.
If they spend most of their time in esports titles not made by Valve (anything by Riot, Fortnite, etc.) they would be sorely disappointed.
However, if they are big into emulation or indie games, the picture is a lot rosier. (And not just because that is an easier workload, but because it implies more knowledge on the part of the user)
I think that is the tipping point for Proton and the Steam Deck, when they can be recommended without qualification to the average gamer. We are not there yet and I do not want to see people burned by having their first exposure to Linux gaming being so close yet so far away for their use case.