I agree with this take 100 fucking percent.
I want to be able to consume and run code provided by other people on hardware/networks that I own.
In which case - Docker/Containers/K8s(or my preference, MicroK8s) are a fucking godsend compared to 10 years ago.
I host about 25 services, I have all the config in a single repo, and can rebuild the whole fucking thing in about 10 minutes.
Adding a new machine to take load is as easy as installing ubuntu server, adding microK8s, and running a SINGLE freaking line on the cli. Boom - done. I do this basically each time we get a new machine... the old one goes to live in the server farm.
All the backups? Easy, since the storage is my NAS, mounted in microK8s, and I can just run scheduled backups there for literally every new service, without any additional config as I add them.
It's incredible. I have done the whole "SSH into each machine and tediously configure it to run a specific application, configure my router, make sure the config files are in the right place, configure backups, worry about HDD lifespan, etc" bullshit for long enough to know that I don't EVER want to go back to that.
The people that keep talking shit about containers are still incredibly focused on the use-case of "I host my own blog" like that's all that self-hosting is. But it's not - I self host open source applications as a complete replacement for shitty, ad-driven, recurring subscription fee based SaaS companies.
Meal planning (mealie),
Calorie tracking (calorietracker),
Video streaming (jellyfin),
Google Docs/Notion/etc (bookstack/nextcloud),
Authentication (keycloak),
File sharing/storage (seafile),
Digital Library (calibre),
Home automation (openhab),
Asset tracking (snipeit),
todo lists (Taiga),
scheduling (cal)
etc...
Containers aren't there to help you host your blog. They're there to let me host your application. Configured quickly and simply.
If there's company making money through a recurring subscription based website... There is someone who has made a decent clone that I can self-host.
And these tools make that process much easier than it used to be.