These are only two examples of "collectivist" societies. The idea that you are either strongly individualist or China/Russia seems like a false dichotomy.
Some of the happiest societies in the world employee a model that is neither rigidly collectivist or individualist (e.g. the Nordic model).
My intuition is that the solution like probably in the middle ground at a political level, while adapting to our new digital reality.
The argument that our society must embrace full individualism or fail, feels a bit like the red-scare lite.