I think I mentioned this on another thread, but the "weakening" you mention is "strengthening integrations with other parts of the platform." I think the general thought here is that an App Engine or a Firebase is a local maximum, and in exchange for trading off deeper integration, there is a platform wide global maximum that is achievable.
Pre-acquisition Heroku, GitHub, Firebase, etc. all were able to achieve local maxima, which led to acquisition, and subsequent attempts to globally optimize.
Dev tools is a brutal business: if you're lucky, 80% of your customers cost you money, 15% break even, and 5% are where 80-90% of your revenue comes from. A better DX typically only gets you more customers in the bottom 95% bracket, because it's easier to onboard people who can get from 0 to 1 than from 10 to 100 (or 100 to 1000). Deeper integrations into the features on the far side of the curve tend to get prioritized and look a lot like what folks here are discussing as negatives.
> I've never gotten the impression that at google DX was lionized. Examples of doing this well culturally are pre-Salesforce Heroku, Github, vscode, and Stripe.
It's not, for the reasons others have pointed out about people being smart enough to figure out the solution regardless of the DX, etc.