And there's a little UI polish coming for the admin panel to show NextDNS configuration a bit more cleanly, but that's not live yet.
Using ipv4 NextDNS servers returned 'youre using NextDNS but without configuration'.
https://github.com/tailscale/tailscale/issues/2452 links to all the client commits.
There was also a lot of control plane stuff to let you specify config for different NextDNS profiles per tags/groups/users/etc.
And NextDNS improved some things on their side too, especially around passing device info to them.
And then, yes, we publicized it after working on it. And closed that bug.
The built-in resolver at 100.100.100.100 handles the *.your-tailscale-suffix names in your tailnet and the rest that doesn't match goes upstream. Basically.