You mean the UI to enable the services? Those aren’t ads.
Who is ‘pushing’ you to do anything?
I feel that you are either arguing in bad faith, or determined to defend Apple at all costs. I guess when your car manufacturer will start showing you "Enable Entertaining Package Plus for 14$/mo" in your car dashboard, you will be happy, think "of course I can decide whether to enable it or not", and probably feel very clever.
If you are comparing a panel in the settings app to an ad on the dashboard of a car, I think it’s pretty clearly not me.