I totally agree that we need a standard -- but it is already here: markdown files with YAML frontmatter, github-style checkmarks and hash-tags. All synced via your favorite filesystem synchronizer.
This is supported by the tool discussed here (`nb`), and over the last 20 years, I have used it with all these tools:
- Notational Velocity (macOS)
- Resoph Notes (MS Windows)
- nvPy (cross platform)
- Obsidian (cross platform)
- 1Writer (iOS)