> Techies really buy into the 'we are pure', 'we only deal with evidence',
> 'we are the best', blah-blah. All the great myth of meritocracy and guff
> like that.
This whole thing seems like a strawman. You're stating that all (or most)
'techies' believe that we're in some sort of utopia where it's impossible for
another 'techie' to do any wrong? Really?
So no one that qualifies as a 'techie':
* Hates Bill Gates and rails against proprietary software?
* Hates Steve Jobs and rails against propietary/close platforms?
* Trolls online forums just for the 'lulz?'
* Has every commited a 'morally wrong' crime (dodging the "hacking shouldn't be
a crime if I don't really mean it"-type arguments)?
> Anything that points out this is not true and that Joe Coder might not be
> perfect and it just kicks off. Oh, yeah and plain sexism as well.
Again, really? Who here thinks that 'Joe the Coder' is perfect? Aren't we as a
tech community filled with 'colorful' personalities? Don't we constantly have
people bickering to the point of ridiculousness over the most trivial thing
possible in forums/mailing lists?
Personally, I think that the reactions here boil down to:
1) Nothing in that post comes off as out-right sexism. None of the dialog even
refers directly to the fact that she's a woman.
2) Posts like this rail against 'males in the tech community' as a group.
If you're a male in the tech community, you read a post like this. Maybe you
see some dialog in the post. Dialog that is claimed to be sexist. Dialog that
you could see yourself saying to a woman, while in no way trying to be sexist
(e.g. "you're being a little hard on person A"). You feel the need to push back
against this becuase it seems like it could just be a mis-understanding.
This seems likely to be the simplest (and more probably right) explanation of
the behaviour.