Honestly, I don't worry about the "urgent call from the doctor" scenario, and I have a family. If it's important, whoever is calling will leave a voicemail. For 99% of the calls I get, it's not even remotely important. I don't structure my life around outlier scenarios. Not having a phone constantly dinging and buzzing for my attention is worth missing the extremely rare emergency.
How do you test for this?
For non-urgent matters like payments, they call once and leave a voicemail.
I’m not in the parent posting chain, but what other option do I have?
There are iphone and android app based solutions that will block more, based on previous reports, on information about the number, the timing. Like HIYA.
You can configure all unknown callers to go to voicemail. Setup an exception if the same number calls you twice.
If you are getting 50+ spam calls a day changing your number is another option. And if you change your number you can more easily block caller ID spoofers that use a very similar number that isn't really local.
I receive more spam calls than spam emails and, being familiar with the underlying technical details of each system, that is absolutely ridiculous. Email was built in a time of pure optimism, there is no central switching authority for emails and there is no cost to sending an email other than jiggling some electrons - telephone calls are highly metered and monitored, they generally pass through several organizations that have been endowed with a high measure of trust to police and shepard them to their final destination. There is no reason other than the monetization of the system that these spam calls are allowed to exist.
Phone numbers are not some cryptographically generated string that would take a while to randomly create. You can literally just start at a number and increment until you've reached them all, so that the spammer doesn't even need to know your number. Your number just got reached because it was the next one in the list.
And other callers called me my son’s name a couple other times. So there seems to be some database that some of them share.
It’s infuriating and undermines the utility of the phone system. Might as well give up and try again at this point.
I don't believe I've received a single spam call in the last 45 days - so your phone number is on some horrible list, I feel for you.
I started receiving spam calls again (after a very long time without a single one) because one of the weasels I had to deal with to buy a house apparently sold my information. I ignored them for a while, mostly because they call when I’m sleeping during the day, but then started answering to get off the lists and haven’t had one in a while. Seems like one company is responsible for the bulk of them and once you get off their list things get significantly better.
All of which I shouldn’t have to do because I’m on the (completely worthless) do not call list.
Never pick up spam calls if you can help it.
My mom is a former investigator and is pretty organized. At peak she received over 80 calls a day, mostly for various Medicare scams followed by typical tech support and other grifts. Eventually political donation calls took over, and then slowed down in 2021 again.
Ive never received a spam call through a chat app like Messenger before. I have to add them as a contact first. In 21st century the old telephone system doesnt work anymore.
Other times it can't and by all means call, but do I ever get tired of the awkward chit chat that some people insist on.
Apparently there's a special kind of memory just for recording telephone messages and it's as precious as a diamond.
(The main reason I’ve subscribed to Jolly Roger was to torture robocallers with roboanswers. They had a collection of rather hilarious conversations on their web page. In real life robocallers seem smarter now and drop much sooner, but voicemail feature works ok and I have not noticed any limits - messages are attached to emails and my gmail account is still at 5% or so.
I was thinking of implementing the same idea with better technology, like on the fly voice recognition, which seems possible and should lead to tons of funny results, but I’m too lazy now).
Unfortunately so do the scammers - both bots and actual people. At least my phone will sometimes text-transcribe the VM so I can quickly scan it and delete it w/o being forced to listen to it.
I have a chronic condition I am stuck with a hospital system that seems to play PBX roulette. I have a dozen of their phone numbers white listed and still miss an important call coming from a new number from time to time.
I hate it, it’s completely out of touch, but it’s not something I have any control over.
It's gotten to the point where if it's a local call I almost always assume it's spam, but I still need to answer.
If it's a doctor's office trying to make an appointment, for instance, then getting through to the same person who knows why you're trying to make the appointment so you don't need to give them 100x as much information yet again? Yeah, at that point it's much better to just answer a few spam calls instead of ignoring all of the unfamiliar numbers.
I have a kid in college and another in high school. A dead phone could mean I could be getting a call from one of them from any number. I just can't ignore them all.
I'm happy for you that your life is simple enough that you can just ignore anything you don't recognize, but try not to act as if the rest of us are doing something wrong because we're happy that the FCC is attacking the underlying problem and ignoring the pain we need to deal with.
I’m Australia, some government agencies hide caller ID, it’s incredibly frustrating.