What about guns? Relative speed against the enemy is the same no matter if you shoot forward or backward. Or am I missing something?
[1] They should use rear-facing lasers!
But in the plane's frame, where both planes are roughly stationary and the wind is moving 100s of mph backwards, bullets fired backwards move faster.
And for aerial combat I would argue the plane's frame is the important one.
If the target is moving at (or nearly at) the same speed as you then those velocities effectively cancel out