How to really know another person
hiddenbrain.org
hiddenbrain.org
The failure to understand this distinction would explain some strange conversations I've had with some people...
those are largely comedy though right? Comedy is too dependent on timing to worry about information density.
It also depends on why you tuned in. If you start a podcast in order to hear a bunch of people chatting and joking for an hour that's one thing, but when you hit the play button with the goal of learning about something it's more like a lecture that contains 20 minutes of information padded out to an hour.
Arms Control Wonk, In Defense of Plants, The Long Now, and The History of English are some of my more favorite information dense podcasts.
You might like The Economist, which has the entire publication professionally read each week, and you can listen at 2x speed, just like a podcast.
This is why people like HN.. You just read the headlines, and see if someone posts a tldr so you don't have to waste your time reading or listening to an hour of unstructured data
TikTok has the best format. Just show me content in easily digestible blurbs, and stop wasting my time!
Beeper messages are where it’s at. If you can’t fit the intel on those two lines of screen, I can’t be bothered.
The exception to the rule: Huberman Labs. He has 2.5 hour pods that are so dense I have to consume them over days.
If you like information dense podcasts you'd like Huberman's podcast as he just lays everything out there.
No new episodes this year so I’m not sure if he plans to continue but the few I’ve heard have been great. Hoping the rest of the archive is similar.
so succinctness is not selected for
note that many of the mid tier youtubers are so verbose that even 2x isn’t good enough
Knowing how to ask someone what they are thinking/feeling is a key skillset of anyone building a product for someone else. Its nuanced enough that books like "The Mom Test" break this down for entrepreneurs to implement tactically. On the other hand, West's research also suggests that one can comfortably underweight their own instincts laden with ego-centric and culture-centric biases. Further, you can also comfortably underweight the observations of your colleagues who might assert empathic abilities.
Perhaps the most interesting segment of this podcast was the story of how the author and her tenured colleague were able to dismiss their own intuitions about a acrimonious rivalry with one another and evaluate their relationship scientifically through hundreds of questions from their own research. They went from disliking one another to getting married.
I just started listening, there were segments with the first being 15m. I would say that they're a collection of anecdata stories on the subject. I napped for a segment in the middle, dreaming about visiting a treehouse office, and was awake again for the end. I didn't find any big answers but also don't mind having passed the time.
On a positive note, the voices were both soothing enough that I did get a short refreshing nap out of it.
https://www.happyscribe.com/public
Didn't find Hidden Brain through a quick search, maybe it's there and I didn't have enough patience.
I'd love to know if there are other services similar to happyscribe.com .. anyone know any?
It adds so much value to a podcast to be able to search for words/text and read instead of just listening.
Also, if you want to add your own thoughts to something that was said, with a transcription you can simply make a PDF and attach an annotation or highlight sentences.
If like me, you like to listen to podcasts and take notes and add your own thoughts, and if you have found some handy tools for that or come up with your custom convenient workflows, I'd really like to know.
Why are you asking for similar services? What's something that you feel is missing on this one? If you could change it or add functionality, what would you change or add?
I once used their trial tool, to transcribe some episode. The functionality is good, but it is commercial. I wouldn't use it often enough to justify signing up.
So if there were some similar tool where I don't have to sign up to some paid service just to transcribe one episode here or there, that'd be neat.
Read of Whisper in the comments. I like that it doesn't appear to require some API keys to use their model. But I'd rather not install yet another Python package that likely comes with a whole bunch of new dependencies.
https://github.com/ggerganov/whisper.cpp
No dependencies, no Python, runs efficiently on the CPU.
Why didn’t I think of that before?
$ curl https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=33052985 | grep -A10 'tldr'
jderick 4 hours ago | prev | next [–]
tldr:
"So you're saying the best way of figuring out what's inside someone else's mind is to ask them?"
"That's right."Some researchers got together and devised questions that get to the vulnerable parts of a person's life, giving you that connection rather efficiently (conversation while following the questions, allowing for tangents, has taken me 1-2 hours on average).
never assume what's going on inside of someone else's head.
Do people really think that they know what other people are thinking?
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intention#Knowledge_of_the_int...
I’m neurodivergent and he was completely wrong most of the time. I did not have an ideal childhood.
When it comes to getting to know a person, there is no shortcut than spending time with them, asking them questions, putting yourself with them in various circumstances. One of the best ways to tap into someone's personality is to go for a trip with them.
Most people I've met are always indicating in various ways the degree to which they are at the mercy of their own feelings.
"So you're saying the best way of figuring out what's inside someone else's mind is to ask them?"
"That's right."
This is one significant reason why the neurodivergent (e.g., autism spectrum) often have social interaction issues. Highly intelligent people also have out of the box thinking that is hard to predict, but they often have increased capacity to infer the thinking of others and adjust accordingly (if they want).
I do think this is true, but as I've gotten older I have come to the conclusion that the two most typical people in the world would still fail to infer each other's thinking because typical thinking misattributes motivation in others to an almost absurd degree.