> Women get cut down later in the pipeline by shitty bosses, sexist work cultures, etc. Men get cut down as boys and, if they're lucky, they may find some support later in life if they're willing to conform to toxic norms.

If (as you say) the support comes from conforming to toxic norms, does the lack of support come from conforming to non-toxic norms?

Then wouldn’t the toxic norms, providing support, actually be less toxic - at least in terms of receiving support?