The good thing of standing up to bullies in a privileged place like SF is that there is essentially no downside, only missed upside.
Also talking about missed upside...once your net worth is 10M (Parag should be there I think) you have "fuck you money" special powers over everybody including people like Musk, Bezos, Gates etc.
There is no amount of money that would convince a mentally stable and financially secure person to deal with these bullies bullshit.
Show them the finger without looking back, never love your passions more than you love yourself and your mental health.