> "but it's the website that chooses want content gets served at any of its URLs."
No, not at all. The web was specifically designed so that the client chooses which parts of the available content to load, and in what way.
When I first started browsing the web I didn't have a graphical browser at home. My web client made decisions about which parts to display and which parts to not. It was not "blocking" anything, it was rendering the available content according to the capabilities of my system.
> "Nothing loaded about the term it's just descriptive."
It's a loaded term because it implies that websites ought to have control over display, when the web was specifically designed such that they should not.
> "Nor are they "content selectors/choosers", nobody uses their adblocking plugin to find content"
I modify many aspects of webpage display to help me assimilate content. When a website has chosen difficult to read colors, I change them so they're easier to see. I change fonts and font sizes. I modify page layouts, sometimes collapsing many separate pages into one long page, and sometimes I use screen readers and I don't even look at a visual rendering at all. I often remove annoying, obnoxious or intrusive content which also make it harder for me to read a page, many of which are ads.
The web is specifically designed from inception to give this agency to clients. Websites provide units of content and suggestions on how to best display it. That is all.