We hate software that doesn't even approximate the free/open software ideals that attracted us to the field in the first place.
I've collected some expressions of disappointment from others in the field.
That is exactly how i feel.
I left tech professionally. I do still tinker, write code, and build stuff, though.
I bought a farm and also started a construction company during covid. Most enjoyable. I have oodles of time for my hobbies (which have multiplied) and i regularly undertake big projects that stretch my abilities and fuels my personal growth. Both in construction and on the farm.
Emacs being open and lisp configurable ? Love, love. Unix everything being a file? Love Smalltalk? Love Wikipedia? Love The open self-hosted web? Love times infinity.
So basically I hate technology that is no made in service of the better angels of our nature.
2. Having to use some piece of tech because of some external requirement. Especially when there's a preferred alternative.
3. Genuine desire to not use tech for something. If you spend all day working on and with tech, you don't really need a toaster telling you the weather in the morning.
In short, I find myself less hating technology directly, but the half assery that is a symptom of a lot of other things I hate.
One lasting aspect for example is that tech is constantly changing. From hardware designs to broader communications standards to security and new feature updates. And certainly not always enjoyably so.
For a lot of people this automatically makes tech more annoying. But in engineering there are camps that come out of stabilizer psychology. They prefer to design for a lasting platform, like a durable railroad bridge or a manufacturing process. But they might not even realize this about themselves.
So you can end up with software engineers who enjoy engineering but hate tech, without realizing why. I've met a few...
This is power on a scale unimaginable even by Kings a century ago. I've purchased computers for $5 each, just in case I might need them later. It's astoundingly amazing.
I'm here because I love technology, and all the good we can do with it. I want to make sure that my voice as added to help make wise choices for the future.