1) Art of Problem Solving - all of the books to review mathematics at middle/high school level 2) Roughly follow the plan mentioned in https://www.susanrigetti.com/math to redo an undergraduate degree 3) Also complete the books here - https://foundations-of-applied-mathematics.github.io/ 4) Move on to more advanced graduate level mathematics
I have a PhD in engineering that was fairly mathematical, but I was missing lots of fundamentals and working through those books has changed my life, and the way my brain works, in a massive way.
They aren't cheap, but they are worth every cent. I am very grateful for having discovered them.
The AoPS books jassume that if you are smart enough to learn the tricks and hard problems, you are smart enough to learn deep math later.
Which is a strange premise, because the PhD geniuses who created AoPS, base their credibility on the fact that they aced all these contests when they were kids... But they did it without any of these materials!
They created a "teaching to the test" curriculum, which, while mathematically sound, created a rat race that makes the contests harder every year, requiring more memorization and silly speed training, as more people memorize all the strategize that the original contests expected student to try to creatively discover on their own.
We are using the printed books, but there are online resources available.